What do you think about most? Like most men, the answer is probably vaginas, and there’s nothing wrong with that!
Sex is an important part of life and relationships, and having a mastery over your partner’s vagina is the key to a fun, healthy sex life.
The vagina itself it a complicated part of the body, with many different parts and places that you really should know about in order to step up your game in the bedroom.
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Here is Vagina 101:
- Vagina or Vulva?
When you are referring to the vagina in general, you are actually probably referring to what is called the vulva. The vulva is a term that describes and defines the external reproductive organs – in other words, the vulva is everything you can physically see while you are down there. The vagina, technically speaking, is the canal that leads into the uterus – and is also where intercourse happens.
- Women get boners too!
Yes, you read that correctly – women get boners too! Just as when a man gets aroused and his penis fills with blood and becomes hard and erect, the same process occurs for a woman’s clitoris. The clitoris, for those of you that don’t know (and you really should know!), is the small, circular nub that lies right where the two inner lips meet. This is the most sensitive part of the female genitalia and is generally responsible for climax.
- Speaking of the Clitoris…
The clitoris has over 8,000 nerve endings, making it incredibly sensitive. Even more interesting – it is the only known human organ to exist SOLELY for pleasure. It is good to try different positions during foreplay and intercourse in order to stimulate all of the clitoral tissue, instead of just the head.
- Female Arousal
One of the biggest misconceptions men have about the vagina is they tend to assume that if a woman is not lubricated, or ‘wet’, then she is not turned on. This is totally untrue. There are plenty of factors that contribute to how quickly a female can lubricate herself naturally. For example, it is naturally much harder to naturally lubricate right after menstruation, if she is taking certain medications or anti-histamines, or if her hormones are changing levels (which happens frequently). This natural lubrication ability also tends to decrease naturally with age.
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- Intercourse or foreplay?
Believe it or not, most women, 75% actually according to a recent study, don’t reach orgasm just by intercourse alone. Foreplay and external stimulation, such as oral or digital stimulation or the use of sex toys, is far more effective in getting women to reach their climax. This is because clitoral stimulation is mostly what creates female climax, and the clitoris is not inside her vagina where most of intercourse happens. Instead, experts say that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off.
- New Partner? New Game plan.
The most common mistake a man can make is assuming that all women are stimulated and turned-on in the same ways. Because every woman is different, not every woman is going to respond in the same ways. It is important to always try new techniques and positions to keep things interesting, find your partners desires, and discover what turns each other on.
- The Infamous G-Spot
Does it exist or not? Though experts are still undecided, there are plenty of people who swear not only by its existence, but its power. The most common misconception is that the G-Spot is an actual spot universally located inside a woman’s vagina. However, if the G-Spot does in fact exist, its exact location will vary from woman to woman. The G-Spot is, essentially, an area on the vaginal wall near the urethra-side that contains many glands and therefore is sensitive to pleasure.
Curated article from:
Huffington Post
